Posted by: Viktor Mar | 2009 May 14

Romance and Relationships & Quick Silver

Sex therapists: Best sex is 7 to 13 min.

ERIE, Pa. (UPI) — A random sample of Canadian and U.S. sex therapists said that sexual intercourse of seven to 13 minutes is most “desirable.”

The survey of North American sex therapists found they thought an “adequate” length for sexual intercourse was from three to seven minutes; “desirable” from seven to 13 minutes; “too short” from one to two minutes; and “too long” from 10 to 30 minutes.

Researchers Eric W. Corty and Jenay M. Guardiani of Penn State Erie, The Behrend College, said that lay public perceptions about how long sexual intercourse should last may be problematic and may be a factor related to perceived distress.

Dissemination to the public of these results may change lay expectations and prevent distress and may benefit couples in treatment for sexual problems by normalizing expectations, the researchers said.

The findings are published in the The Journal of Sexual Medicine.

Copyright 2008 by United Press International

Quick silver

Well well well. I was scanning through an old NewScientist magazine while eating lunch.

Then I saw an article titled „The drug that helps men last longer.” Decided to read it real quick and see what they were talking about. Talked about men that suffer from ever premature ejaculation (PE). They last less than a minute after penetration.

Ooook. Understood, they need some type of treatment. As I kept reading, it said that with a drug they can get help and last up to 3.3 minutes. Ooook again.

BUT, as I kept on reading it says that on average, now get this, ON AVERAGE, men last for 5.4 minutes!!! JUST 5.4 minutes?!?!? What the hell??? No wonder women complain so much about one minute wonders! 5.4 minutes? I thought they were kidding!

5.4 minutes? It comes as a shock, 5.4 minutes on AVERAGE is NOTHING! Not even a warm up!!! I mean I thought that the average would be at least an hour unless getting a „quickie!!!”  I am still shocked, SHOCKED by that number! No wonder many women are miserable! Sheesh!

So to you women that have your „average” guys…sorry. Hope you teach him to last longer.  And for my fellow man, do SOMETHING to last longer man! It is mostly psychological!

Except for those PE guys, it shouldn’t ONLY last 5.4 minutes.


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